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The Big Bang - a reflection on great clients

Neil August 5th, 2008

I hope my last two posts have made some impression as to what I value in my photography:

My Clients

Their moments

We went on a love roller-coaster in Toronto, and had a Big Bang here in New York

It’s so gratifying to attract great clients! clients full of emotion, and full of stories to tell about Love and life worth living.  Thank you for living lives bigger than life - and valuing your love enough to hire me.  That last weekend confirms so much of what I’ve been trying to build here at Make Love Real - and I look forward to all the new clients that feel an affinity for what we’re doing an encouraging.

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The face of God smiles on me

Neil August 2nd, 2008

New York August Sunset.jpg“Hey Neil  - were the pictures good?”

“um, aaah, well….the face of God smiled on me”

I can’t really explain it any other way…in case you were wondering what I was doing earlier tonight.

We had to tolerate thunderstorm downpours - but we got to receive the blessings of the August sunset.  If you’re planning an August wedding in Upstate New York be sure to plan some time for sunset portraits.

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Neil the wedding crasher…

Neil July 8th, 2008

Well, I’d like to brag that I just have a ‘nose for a wedding’

But, while that may partially be true - really I’m just lucky that I wrote Erik…

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…and Danielle was smart to encourage him to call me back…

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…and I was lucky enough to get the voicemail as I hiked to the top of Pilsbury mountain with Eben…Wedding Crasher03.jpg

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Where art lives: From Sister Wendy

Neil June 25th, 2008

If you’ve lived 30 years in seclusion, and come out to talk about art….
….you might know a bit about where art should live. Listen through this series of clips from an interview to gain her perspective:

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The Man’s Guide to the Perfect Marriage Proposal

Neil June 18th, 2008

The Man’s Guide to the Perfect Marriage Proposal @ The Art of Manliness

There are a few things you must keep in mind when contemplating the way that you will propose marriage to your lady. First, this is a memorable moment, which will be told and retold over the years to your friends, family, children, and grandchildren. Make it a story worth telling. Secondly, every woman is different; make your proposal specific to her taste and personality. Some women would love nothing more than to have all their friends and family be witness to the event, while others would much prefer a private and intimate moment with you alone. First and foremost, make sure the way in which you ask makes her comfortable.

Make it a story worth telling…..of course this is near and dear to my heart and the humor of how everyone’s expectations are botched in funny little ways is part of the cuteness of such an enormous expectation.  The expectation is the lock on the woman’s heart - and meeting it is the key to winning that heart with the Man’s gesture.  I’m writing this for the Men so this is how you have to think of it:

Give her some bragging rights!

Seriously, she needs to be able to brag you up to her friends and family - and doing this right will help her do that and give her a greater sense of confidence as she earns their approval and admiration from the story you create.  A great story makes her feel unique and special at the same time. 

Listen to couples tell their engagement story, and listen for the elements that were important to them.

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